I had always loved martial arts movies growing up. Watching Kung Fu Theatre every weekend was a
big part of my childhood. As a kid, I
made my own nunchaku, twirled brooms and their handles like staffs, and learned
to flip a balisong (butterfly knife) when a friend made ones out of popsicle sticks. I had a few friends take TKD, Kenpo, and
Ninjitsu, but my parents didn’t push me to take a class, nor did I communicate
any desire to take one. My dad was always telling me how my favorite uncle was "very good at Arnis", and when I was about 13 on one trip to the Philippines, my uncle tried to give me a lesson. It lasted about 10 minutes because of my arrogant, impatient,
dimissive teenage mind. Something I
regret to this day.
I didn’t start training until I was a freshman at UCLA
in 1990. Luckily in my first quarter, a friend suggested I come along to the
FMA class. Guro Burton Richardson was
teaching, and one of the first things I saw him do was Redondo 6 count. Fast, fluid, precise, I was blown away. I was still pretty dismissive of things,
especially when they came from my own culture. But I signed up. Maybe it’s
because my uncle ended up dying early, and was pushing me from the other side?
Both of my grandfathers trained. My
paternal grandfather in the PI was unfortunately too old to move and show me
anything, and my maternal grandfather only learned Cinco Teros (five strikes)
in the army.
And so it began. Guro
Burton moved to Hawaii a little over a year later, and I continued with Guro Ed
Frankel. The FMA class ended when Guro Ed hurt his back, so I went and
tried out a little fencing (foil) and did a short stint in Tang Soo Do. When Guro Ed
was well enough to start training again, he didn’t want to teach a full class. I was one of 3 or so students that he called
to be his students/training partners. We
would train in a hidden grassy area on campus surrounded by walls. I was young, I was
arrogant, I wanted to show the world the cool stuff we were doing. But Guro Ed continued to train us in that
secluded area, which kept my ego in check and forced me to focus on
training instead of trying to impress the next cute girl that walked by.
The years went by at UCLA and I got to train under two more
FMA instructors, Guros Mark Stewart and Mark Hoffman. Also I had met Tim Lau (now a BJJ black belt)
through an elementary school friend, and started to train with him at
Steve Tarani’s Southern California Eskrima Academy in Irvine. Guro Steve was close with the late Pendekar
Herman Suwanda, and we started taking annual seminars with Pak Herman (RIP) there and at
IAMA.
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2000 Seminar w/Pendekar Herman Suwanda at IAMA.
Front Row L-R (Tim Lau, Romi Archer, Shannon Suwanda, Herman Suwanda, Paula Inosanto, Dan Inosanto, me, Joel Clark)
Back row L-R (?, ?, ?, ?,Steve Tarani, Lavonne Martin, ?,?, Phil Matende) |
After graduating college I was broke and couldn’t afford
training, save an occasional seminar. After a seminar with Pendekar Suwanda in
1999 at the Inosanto Academy, I saw that a Capoeira class was about to start.
My only exposure to Capoeira had been from the videogame character Eddy Gordo
from Tekken. It looked like a great workout, with music going the whole time. Mestre Boneco
was a very dynamic personality, and most unusual to me at the time, the ratio
of women to men was almost equal. I
tried a class and was hooked. Plus I was at a point in my career where could finally afford regular training!
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| Flipping into the roda with Contra Mestre Axe, 2002 |
I spent the next 7 years training Capoeira 3-5 days a
week. Our class would run from
9-10:30pm, and I would regularly stay with Orelha (RIP), Electrico, and Polegar (Capoeira nicknames) until almost midnight continuing to train and work on things. Capoeira Brasil
Los Angeles under Mestre Boneco continued to grow and we eventually got our own
academy. I lived the Capoeira lifestyle. Traveled to other cities to train and
for batizados (annual graduation event with tons of workshops). Went to Brazil in 2001 and contemplated
moving there for a little while. But
then I met my ex-wife while teaching the Capoeira class at UCLA and never did.
In 2006, while playing in a roda (pronounced HO-dah), I tore my ACL. I’ll tell that
story in another post. I was devastated. I was supposed to compete in a Capoeira tournament up
in Santa Cruz later that summer. I had the feeling that I was going to be
promoted to instructor at the next batizado in the fall. I didn’t want to get
promoted if I couldn’t play in the roda for it. From my calculations, the whole
process from surgery to rehab to readjusting could take almost a
year. I couldn’t just sit at home going
nuts from not training.
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| w/Guro Dan Inosanto after a seminar at OC Kickboxing in 2010 |
Somehow I came up with the idea of going back to Kali and Silat. I lived close to the Inosanto Academy, so why
not there? All of my FMA teachers
trained under Guro Dan Inosanto, so technically, I had been a part of his
extended family for 16 years. At that
point I had only met Guro Dan once at a seminar he taught at Cal State LA. Since it was less stressful movements on the
knee, I planned to train for a few months until the surgery, pick up after PT until my knee and my confidence were strong enough to go back to Capoeira. I fell in love again with Kali and Silat. Guro
Dan did what he does best – teaching people how to analyze, how to organize so
it makes sense to you, how to learn. The
staff instructors were extremely talented and experienced, and I learned just as much from Guros Keith
Davis, John and Suzanne Spezzano, Mike Wise (RIP), Marc Denny, as I
did from Guro Dan.
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Getting my Corda Azul, 2007 CBLA Batizado.
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After my knee healed, I did go back to Capoeira for a little
while and got my corda azul (blue cord – at the time it signified instructor)
in 2007, 16 months after the injury. In
2009, I was offered the opportunity to teach a Saturday class at both CBLA and
IAMA. Problem – they were both at the same time. I chose the Inosanto
Academy, and I’m blessed to still be teaching that class to this day. I left
capoeira behind, but did visit CBLA a month or two ago and saw some old
friends. I got there towards the end of
the roda and didn’t get to play, but next time!
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| w/Pamana Tuhon Chris Sayoc (Sayoc Kali), 2007 |
I got divorced in 2010, and that meant a whole lot of free
time. I dove in hard into FMA and Silat, training with Guro Keith on Sundays
with the KST (Kombat Science & Tactics) group, and went to seminars with:
Tuhon
Ray Dionaldo and the FCS (Filipino Combat Systems) family
Guro Willie Laureano
(Inosanto-Laureano PPKM)
Pamana Tuhon Chris Sayoc (Sayoc Kali)
Guro Roger Agbulos
(Astig LAMECO)
Guro Felix Valencia (Valencia LAMECO Escrima)
Tuhon Felix
Cortez (Filipino Combatives)
Grand Master Felix Roiles (Pakamut)
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| w/Tuhon Ray Dionaldo (FCS Kali), 2008 |
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| w/Guru Maul Mornie (Silat Suffian Bela Diri), 2011 |
Also took a few Balintawak seminars with Grandmaster Nene Gabucayaan and a handful of Boxe Francaise Savate workshops with Professor Nicolas Saignac. I traveled to NYC in 2011 and 2012 train with Guru Maul Mornie (Silat Suffian Bela Diri), and I'm looking forward to more training with Guro Willie Laureano (PPKM), Master Rino Balinado (NECOPA Balintawak), Guro Doug Marcaida (Marcaida Kali), Guro Fabrizio Mansur Filograna (Abenir Kalis), Guru Alvin Guinanao (Silat Open Circle), and Guru Ed Wong (Modern Cimande).
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w/Master Rino Balinado (NECOPA Balintawak Arnis)
2016 |
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w/Guro Fabrizio Filograna (Abenir Kalis)
2016 |
These days, I’m trying to focus more Muay Thai and Boxing –
arts I should have spent more time with sooner.
I’m "embracing the suck", and it’s great to be humbled every class during sparring. Because slowly and step by
step, it gets a little easier (except the cardio. That seems to get harder).
Plus it’s better at keeping me in shape in my mid 40’s than FMA. More on that later.
These days, people call me Guro, which to me is a huge responsibility that I have to live up to. I still have too much to learn, too much to
figure out. I question my abilities all the time. And that's ok. You have to always keep in perspective what you don't know along with what you do know. At
the end of the day I’m happy to still be a student, and hope to always be one.
Guro Dan always tells us “Go learn from as many people as you can. There’s always
something to learn, there’s always something that someone can teach you.” He has been living this quote for more than 60 years, hoping I can do the same.